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APPENDIX

As a part of the research for my thesis on relationship formation on IRC, I am conducting a survey. The thesis will look at the many different types and the way relationships form on IRC. I would appreciate it if you could complete the following questions and return it to me ASAP. Your return email will be stripped of all headers and signatures to assure anonymity. Please email responses to: ebyrne\@st.nepean.uws.edu.au

Thank you for your time :-)\

    1. Age:  __ under 15   __ 15-18   __ 19-25   __ 26-40   __ 40 and above  

      

    2. Gender:   __ M    __ F  

      

    3(a). Occupation: _____________________________________________ 

      

      (b) If a Student what is your major area of study? ___________________  

      

      

    4. What type of computer mediated communication do you use?   

    (Please mark all that apply)  

      

    __ IRC (Internet Relay Chat)  

      

    __ email  

      

    __ "talk"  

      

    __ network news  

      

    __ MUDs (Multi-User Dungeons)  

      

    __ other (please specify) _______________________________________ 

     

      

    * If you selected IRC, please answer the following questions*  

      

      

    5. How often do you use IRC?  

      

    __ daily      

      

    __ weekly  

      

    __ monthly  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    6(a). Do you msg on IRC?     __ Yes     __ No  

      

    (b) If yes, how often?      

      

    __ seldom  

      

    __ frequently  

      

    __ other (please specify) _______________________________________ 

      

      

    7(a). Do you frequent a particular channel(s)?   __ Yes    __ No  

      

    (b) If yes, which type of channel(s) do you frequent? (Mark all that apply)  

      

    __ computer related (#unix, #macintosh, #linux, etc)  

      

    __ nationality (#aussies, #canada, etc)  

      

    __ sex related (#sex, #hottub, #gblf, etc)  

      

    __ general talk (#talk, #chat, etc)  

      

    __ religious (#christian, #islam, etc)  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    8. What would you see as constituting a relationship on IRC?  

      

    __ talking with someone once  

      

    __ talking with someone a few times  

      

    __ regular talking over a period of time  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    9(a). Have you ever formed relationships on IRC?      __ Yes    __ No  

      

    (b) If yes, what type of relationships have you formed? (Mark all which  

    apply)  

      

    __ friendship  

      

    __ love  

      

    __ net sex  

      

    __ business  

      

    __ information exchange  

      

    __ a contact   

      

    __ other (please specify) _________________________________________ 

      

      

    10(a). Have all your relationships stayed purely on IRC?    __ Yes     __ No  

      

    (b) If no, in what areas have they expanded into? (Mark all that apply)  

      

    __ letters  

      

    __ telephone  

      

    __ exchanged photos  

      

    __ real life meeting  

      

    __ other CMC  

      

    __ socialising on a regular basis  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    11. What is it about people on IRC that make you want to talk to them?  

    (Mark in order of significance - 1 being most significant)  

      

    __ nick  

      

    __ user name  

      

    __ country  

      

    __ channel  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

     

      

    12. How do you typically start a conversation with someone on IRC? (Mark  

    in order of frequency of use - 1 being most frequent)  

      

    __ say hello  

      

    __ make a witty comment  

      

    __ remark on something you both have in common  

      

    __ ask a question  

      

    __ someone else introduced you to them  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    13. What sort of information are you willing to disclose to someone in a first  

    encounter? (Mark in order of willingness - 1 being most willing)  

      

    __ gender  

      

    __ race  

      

    __ age  

      

    __ occupation  

      

    __ physical location  

      

    __ sexual preference  

      

    __ personal problems  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    14(a). Do you think that people act differently on IRC than in real life?  

      

    __ Yes    __ No  

      

    (b) If yes, why do you think this is? (Mark all that apply)  

      

    __ they don't like who they are  

      

    __ it is easier to be someone you aren't on IRC  

      

    __ its fun to trick people  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

      

      

    15(a). Do you ever pretend to be someone you are not on IRC?  

      

    __ Yes       __ No  

      

    (b) If yes, why is this? __________________________________________ 

      

    ____________________________________________________________ 

     

    ____________________________________________________________ 

     

      

    16. What things in a conversation will make you want to talk to someone  

    again? (Mark in order of significance)  

      

    __ they sound "nice"  

      

    __ they sound intelligent  

      

    __ they treat you with respect  

      

    __ you have something in common  

      

    __ they were able to help you with a problem  

      

    __ other (please specify) _________________________________________ 

      

      

    17. What things in a conversation will make you not want to talk to someone  

    again? (Mark in order of significance)  

      

    __ they are condescending  

      

    __ they make sexual advances  

      

    __ they are rude  

      

    __ they disclose too much information about themselves  

      

    __ they ask too many questions  

      

    __ you didn't have anything in common  

      

    __ other (please specify) ________________________________________ 

     

      

    18(a). Is there a difference between your IRC relationships and your real life  

    relationships?  

      

    __ Yes      __ No  

      

    (b) What makes them different? ___________________________________ 

      

    ____________________________________________________________ 

     

    ____________________________________________________________ 

     

      

    (c) Why do you think this is so? ___________________________________ 



    ____________________________________________________________ 

     

    ____________________________________________________________ 

Thank you again for taking the time to fill out this survey.
If you would like to, please make any additional comments about relationships on IRC at the bottom of the survey.
Also, if you would like to be interviewed about a particular relationship you have had on IRC, please contact me in a separate email.

Elisabeth Byrne
University of Western Sydney, Nepean
ebyrne\@st.nepean.uws.edu.au
lisabeth\@sydgate.apana.org.au



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